新闻公告 News - How to be WISE parents?家长工作坊之如何成为智慧型父母

[2016-05-26]

很多家长都深有这样的体会:父母是世界上最难做的一份工作,因为在孩子的成长和教育道路上,除了要给予孩子无限的爱与时间,更需要付出大量的财力、精力和智力。24日下午,我园邀请国家二级心理咨询师与美国正面管教讲师吴莹女士进入家长工作坊,与各位维多利亚的爹地妈咪共同讨论如何做智慧父母,助力孩子成长。

 Most parents share the feeling that parenting is the hardest job.  In addition to lots of care and time, parenting also demands money, energy and wisdom. Yesterday afternoon Pudong Victoria parents participated in our parents workshop on how to be WISE parents led by Madam Wu Ying, National Secondary Psychological Consultant and Certified Lecturer of Positive Discipline.

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吴莹女士以如何让对方松开紧握的拳头的游戏开场,从而让家长们体会并引发其思考:在父母管教中,是要赢了还是赢得孩子?随之让家长们分享育儿中的各种挑战,直面点出孩子的各种貌似不听教或不良行为的背后,其实是孩子错误的价值与归属观念。在一一分析各种问题后,讲师温馨地给爸爸妈妈们支招解困——采取正面管教,做智慧型父母。家长们在整个工作坊中,通过听讲,互动,提问和讨论,认识到,正面管教就是可以掌握多种解决问题的有效方法,例如启发式提问与正面语言沟通等,赢得孩子的尊重与合作!

The lecture started with a game that sparked parents to reflect on their methods of parenting. Parents brought up the challenges they are faced with in family education and Madam Wu helped them analyze the problems behind children’s misbehavior.  Madam Wu encouraged parents to adopt strategies such as asking children inspiring questions and using positive language from Positive Discipline which helps win over children’s cooperation.

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本次家长工作坊顺利举行,家长们积极踊跃,气氛热烈。希望维多利亚的爸爸妈妈有所收获,在育儿方面更长一智。

The workshop was successful due to parents active participation and idea sharing. We hope Victoria’s parents could benefit from the lecture and learn to be wiser parents.